Well, I think it should be stated that love isn’t a feeling. It is a committment. That feeling of butterflies in your stomach fades with time. It does for all. It’s the committment that you must hold on to.
However, I noticed that you said you have boys. I would like to know if this man is a boyfriend (not the father of the boys) or your husband who is their father. I think divorce is not an option if that’s where your heart is leading you. “For better or worse” doesn’t mean to bail out when you start to think it’s not right. It’s until “the day that you part” – die.
But, if it’s a boyfriend, I would focus on the concerns of your children first and foremost. You could even ask them what they think about your man. I believe that once children are in the world, they become your priority. Always remember that the decisions you make will affect them. If your bf is bad for them, he should be gone.
But if none of that is the case, and he is just a bf, and you’re not sure that he’s the one for you, know that there are literally billions of more men out there. Just think of how important your committment is to him. Once you’ve decided, then make your decision.
Follow your heart,you may need to take some time to yourself to see who you really want to be with.Good Luck
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Well, I think it should be stated that love isn’t a feeling. It is a committment. That feeling of butterflies in your stomach fades with time. It does for all. It’s the committment that you must hold on to.
However, I noticed that you said you have boys. I would like to know if this man is a boyfriend (not the father of the boys) or your husband who is their father. I think divorce is not an option if that’s where your heart is leading you. “For better or worse” doesn’t mean to bail out when you start to think it’s not right. It’s until “the day that you part” – die.
But, if it’s a boyfriend, I would focus on the concerns of your children first and foremost. You could even ask them what they think about your man. I believe that once children are in the world, they become your priority. Always remember that the decisions you make will affect them. If your bf is bad for them, he should be gone.
But if none of that is the case, and he is just a bf, and you’re not sure that he’s the one for you, know that there are literally billions of more men out there. Just think of how important your committment is to him. Once you’ve decided, then make your decision.
just Bcause
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