I yes, wife no Is 11 to young to chat with your son about birds and bees and masterbation. I say now is time?

I want to chat with him now about it and she wants to wait another year or so. I told her he is hearing thing and all and now is the time to help him with this. Plus hormones are cutting in and he is going to try things on his own. what do you think now or wait

11 Responses to I yes, wife no Is 11 to young to chat with your son about birds and bees and masterbation. I say now is time?

  1. I agree that talks should start now, but maybe they don’t need to get terribly detailed yet

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  2. manatee lover

    If your son is mature for his age, I say that the earlier the better!!!!! He’s not quite reached the age yet where parents are totally stupid and will hopefully still respect and appreciate the knowledge. If he’s asking questions, that means he’s asking for your input. Mom just doesn’t want to see her baby growing up is all, and I can’t say I blame her. HOWEVER, unfortunately kids are experimenting with their sexuality at a much earlier age these days. Good Luck!!!!

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  3. bottomlesspit

    Definitely now. It’s something he needs to hear from you before he starts getting the urge to try it on his own. You can give him the knowledge he needs to handle the new feelings and also help him make good choices. If you put off talking to him he’ll make the choices on his own, uninformed, possibly based on the opinion of his peers. Eleven may seem like a young age but it’s sadly not too young. Children are trying things earlier and earlier and it’s important that, as his father, you get through to him before anyone else does.

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  4. the_question_girl

    i think you should had told him sooner. Sadly I know a lot of boys that had sex at the age

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  5. Given the fact that there are some kids out there having sex, smoking , doing drugs at 11 I would say start NOW! Just choose your words carefully.

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  6. The Unfortunate thing is that kids are becoming sexually active really young these days. HIV AND AIDS know no boundaries. At the very least, begin a discussion and see how he reacts. Don’t sit him down and stare at him. Have something else going on so he can feel less uncomfortable. Let it be a “guy thing”. He’ll appreciate it later as he matures. And his mom … she’ll get over it. His LIFE could very well be at issue !

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  7. Your son is at the age of understading. Expalining to him about sex,drugs, girls, and anything else you feel the need
    to talk to him about. It is very important to teach our children while they are young.

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  8. Forever A Mommy

    Id talk to him ASAP! I plan to have many small talks with my children which is key. If you are to embarressed i suggest giving him a book…

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  9. Mollywobbles

    If your son is asking questions about sex then he’s old enough to hear certain things. Just don’t get too graphic yet, save that for when he’s a couple of yrs. older. My husband and I use this approach with our 10 yr. old son and we decided when he starts taking health classes then we’ll both have ” the talk ” with him. We also feel it’s important to have both parents talk to children so they get male and female points of view.

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  10. Talk to him now before every one else does!

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  11. Talk to him now before every one else does!

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