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Do you have children together? If so, be the bigger person and let it go. If the bills get to much to handle, take her to court.
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No, because it just makes you an even bigger monster.
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don’t get revenge it will only make you feel worse!
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“Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.”
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No revenge is wrong.
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Let it go and move on- the financial stuff will end at some point. Don’t let it eat you up.
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I had many reasons to get revenge on my ex hubby, but didn’t…
As for your situation, get the bills out of your name so she stops racking them up and if you didn’t purchase anything, then you’re not obligated to pay them.
If they are past bills, get them in her name or if it’s a material item, then come to conclusion on who gets what..
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Revenge is a childish thing. I know how you feel I am still paying the bills he ran up while we were married, and it doesn’t seem fair but, I decided enough was enough I paid the bills and then I went to the magistrate and am collecting the money back that I spent, because after the divorce you are no longer responsible for their debts.
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Yes, I got the best revenge by moving on with my life and meeting someone better. Happiness is the best revenge.
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You shouldn’t be getting bills for your ex, post-divorce, unless your lawyer was an incompetent buffoon who didn’t include debt disposition in your divorce decree – in which case, it’s your own fault.
Otherwise, return the bills to the creditor with a copy of your divorce decree which highlights the disposition of debts incurred by your ex. Include a letter which explains that you are not responsible for any of her debts and references the enclosed divorce decree. Close the letter by stating that they are not to contact you any further with regards to her, and give them her contact information (name, address, phone number, place of employment, etc).
As for “revenge”, no way. I am happy to be rid of him, and I’m sure he’s happy to be rid of me. I wish him the best, but I’m *not* going to waste my life being bitter about something that was, after all, a GOOD thing. Be thankful, pal. You’re FREE! You could still be married to her. Why waste your time and energy trying to get revenge on her? The kind of thinking only makes you bitter and nasty, and it doesn’t impact her in the slightest. Don’t do that to yourself. Move on.
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Yes I did and yes I did feel better. Just wish I would not have blown off the fact that she had a black widow tattooed to her back. Would have saved me alot of trouble.
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you arent screwing her, if you are making her pay for something that you both got together, if its something you feel you need to do, for your own happieness then do it.
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if you don’t do it right away, NO, revenge won’t help… i mean what i did was my ex wanted the divorce, so i went and took the money out of our savings account to pay for the lawyer and stuff cuz he wanted it, not me, then i filed for temporary alimony since we had no kids, and i got it, he told me i would not get it, but i did, ha… then he told him he could have the ’65 must. conv. if he paid the existing bills that we had in full, since the title to the stang was in my name and i could not drive it back then cuz i did not know how to drive a stick, lol… so i got my revenge in my own little ways.
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THE BEST WAY TO GET HER BACK IS TO NOT RESPOND IF SHE FEELS YOU HAVE GONE ON WITH YOUR LIFE THAT IS THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO TO HER THE HAPPIER YOU ARE THE MORE F*@KED UP SHE WILL FEEL
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yup, i got revenge during the divorce, and i am happy about it
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Nope. Neither of us tried to screw the other over so there was no need to have revengeful thoughts or actions.
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What you should have done when you filed for divorce was put all bills in the decree, then that way the past debts could have been shared. I got a divorce and I didn’t do that I eventually paid all the past debts alone but it was worth it. I finally got a peace of mind. My ex will never know that I had to struggle to pay off past debts that he mainly incurred. Don’t get revenge on her in a negative way, the best revenge you can get on an ex is to appear happy. That will eat them up.
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