How can I overcome my phobia of bees, wasps, hornets, mud dobbers, etc? Please help! I know that by facing my fears head on will cure me of my phobia supposedly because I have seen that stuff on TV. My apartment building stairwell is infested with wasps, bees, and hornets. I mean they are everywhere! If I lokk outside I can see about 10 at any given time and I live on the top floor so I have to take the stairs to get anywhere – plus I have a 1 year old little boy and I can’t take him anywhere because I would have to carry him down the stairs to get to the car so I could leave and i know that one of us would get stung. Any suggestions?