I had asked my cousin to be my matron of honor at my wedding in July along with asking my best friend to be maid of honor, my maid of honor has been awesome helping me pick out dressess having a fun weekend etc…however, my cousin has always been to busy she does have a four year old but i feel that she has made no effort to be a part of this weeding. She recently just told me that she can not make it to my shower because the drive would bee too long for her and she would be too tired the thing is she only lives about 4 hours away. I don’t know what to do especially since she is family. I still want her to be at the wedding but I don’t know if I want her to be my matron of honor.
* Please note that she does not work *