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There is a woman at work that I am very interested in. At first she seemed quite interested. I would catch her looking at me and other signs. When I finally asked her. she said yes and gave me her phone number. I called her a few days later to see if she would like to have a drink. I didn`t catch her. So I left message. She did not get back to me, However when she saw me at work on Monday after she made a bee line to me and apologized for missing call and said she was not blowing me off. A few days later I asked again and she said she was busy and seemed a bit rude about it. So I left it alone for a few days. I also noticed even when passing time of day with her she seemed short with me. Like a school girls way of trying to discourage me. So I asked if I was wasting my time. She then said she was not ready and asked for more time by asking if we could be friends at work for awhile,,,then a few weeks later she said she dint want a work relationship! Whats up?

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Apr 20, 2006 at 4:34 pm
Extra info on this woman is that she has had last two relationships end in deaths one by cancer one by car accident. I have had exact same experience as well. I understand it! There is something familiar about thos woman to meor I would not ask her because of work. She still looks at me and talks to me. I have backed way off and barley spoken to her since I think she owed me an apology for being rude. I still want to get to knw this lady. we are both same age,,ben through same thing I know she still likes me. Its really got me. I want to know her better